Let us put aside the idea of a perfect world, where people love their lovers honestly, with all their heart and would never cheat on them. Where all relationships are successful and no hearts are broken.  Where there are no tears but only smiles and where two people live happily ever after.
The real world is way too different: people cheat, trust is broken and heart are shattered. I am not advising you to doubt your partner all the time, but if you notice a negative change in their actions or reactions, then trying to have some surety about things won’t do any bad.
If you see some of these seven signs in your partner, then it’s high time you clear things up with them.
  • 1. They take longer and longer to text you back.

Taking their privacy away is something you shouldn’t do, but if they take advantage of your trust in them, then they are either a terrible person or they think you are stupid enough to trust them blindly. If they take too long to text you back or return a call, then there are chances of them cheating on you. Repetition of late response is a sign for you.

  • 2. They come home late from work.

This one may sound like a dramatic and typical sign but people actually make excuses like “there’s a lot of work today and I may have to spend the night”. They say this when they want to sneak out for something illegitimate. It is also one of the old excuses. It is really stupid of them to use it but it can be a signal for you to be in charge and find out what’s happening.

  • 3. They take a shower as soon as they get home.

Their sudden habit of getting into the shower as soon as they return from work or somewhere else may be because of the new person they are spending time with. This sign may not be very common but if you notice them becoming a shower – freak, then there are chances they want to get rid of the smell of the person they slept with or anything else that will get them caught.

  • 4. They are not as exciting in bed as they used to be.

You obviously know the urges and desires your partner has about sex and you are the only one who satisfies their needs, but if lately, they have not been showing any need for sex, then there is something wrong. It is not absolutely sure that they are sleeping with someone else if their sex routine changes, but if the change is sudden, then they may be sleeping with someone else.

  • 5. They get you present without any occasion.

This one can be a little tricky. It could be difficult for you to tell if they are getting you presents out of love or if they want to cover their guilt. Even if they are being dishonest and sleeping with someone else, they might feel the guilt at times and try to cover it up with some extra gifts out of occasion.

  • 6. They pay more attention to self – grooming.

If your partner is usually not too interested in looking good, but they suddenly started paying too much attention to their looks, maybe they are either trying to impress someone other than you or have already impressed someone.
Self grooming is a normal thing to do for anybody but if they never had a problem going out with a grey shirt and blue jeans but perfectly dress up now before going out, then there is some place for planting your doubt.

  • 7. They bring new moves to bed.

New moves can be a sign of new sex partner in their life, although it is not necessary. They may have learnt it from friend or read about it on the Internet but on the other hand, it could also mean something else too.
You can ask where they learnt it from in a way that does not imply that you doubt them.

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